Friendship is a blessing

Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends will cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends will challenge us to attain our original limits with encouragement when we allow ourselves not to go beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends will motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. Friends are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around, to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily.

cheer (V) : spirit
attain (V) : to achieve
encouragement (V) : incitement to action
flow (N) : A continuous movement of something abundant
allow (N) : to approve of

Why we need friendship ?

     Friendship is the gift to the man kind. The relation which we get in this world are blood related. But the only relationship which does not related to blood is friendship. Friendship has many forms and shapes. It is like water. If we pour the water into a jug it takes the shape of . if you pour the same water into a bowl it takes the shape of bowl. Someway friendships will take a different shapes and sizes according to our heart. Friendship gives pleasure to human beings. Where there is friendship then there will not be any sorrow. When you see a child laughing you will forget your sorrows for a second, someway when you are with a friend you forget your sorrows.
     Trust it true friendships never makes others down. it helps a lot to make friends to come up from the situation. Friendship never expect anything in return for all its offering. It saves life without looking into situation. Lets get friendship and let's befriends.

jug (N) : a picther
Someway : bagaimana pun
sorrow (V) : to be sad
expect (V) : to look forward to
offering (N) : inscription

How to Be Clever Minded

     The first step to becoming clever is to relax and be yourself. Try to become comfortable with yourself. The next step is to watch some of your clever friends in action. Listen to what they say and when they say it. Also watch people who you think are clever on TV. Stand up comedians are a great source of clever people.
     This last step is perhaps the most important. Get out there and Practice. Talk to everyone you come across and get in the art of making conversation with people. When you become comfortable with the conversation part and being yourself you will notice clever things coming to mind. Do not be afraid to throw it out there. Just let it flow and in very little time you will be naturally  and the center of attention at the party.

clever minded : berpikiran pintar / cerdas
flow : aliran
notice : pemberitahuan
get in : masuk
naturally : tentu saja

Three Ways To Make People Like You

#1 - Be Genuinely Interested In Other People.
I think that the most frequently said word is “I.” People love to talk about themselves, their lives, their hobbies, their families, their passions, etc. When you interact with people, ask questions and allow them to talk, they will love you for it.

#2 - Smile.
A smile is a simple gesture that doesn’t cost money, time, or energy but it can brighten someone’s day; it changes the way you feel and makes you more approachable.
Smiling is attractive and contagious. People around you can’t help but smile when they see a big smile on your face.

#3 - Be A Good Listener
As the sage saying goes, we were given one mouth and two ears for a reason. We need to encourage others to talk and then we need to listen to understand what they are saying.
Listening is much more than being silent. It is an active process. It involves empathy the ability to walk in someone’s shoes and understand them without judging or fixing.
Listening is a skill that is developed with practice. As you master it, people will like you more and more.

genuinely : benar - benar.
encourage : mendorong
involves : melibatkan
contagious : menular
approachable : didekati