Friendship is a blessing

Friendship is a blessing, and a friend is the channel through whom great emotional, spiritual, and sometimes even physical blessings flow. Friends will cheer us when we’re sorrowful or depressed. Friends will challenge us to attain our original limits with encouragement when we allow ourselves not to go beyond our reasonable boundaries. Friends will motivate us when we’re ready to give in, and they can provide for us when life falls apart. Friends are there when all is well, and we want someone with whom to share life’s pleasant and memorable moments. We often just want them around, to have a good time, to laugh, to act silly, to enjoy some mutually liked activity. In how many ways have friends enriched our lives and made us feel loved, accepted, respected and cared for? Probably, too many to list, and the list grows daily.

cheer (V) : spirit
attain (V) : to achieve
encouragement (V) : incitement to action
flow (N) : A continuous movement of something abundant
allow (N) : to approve of

Why we need friendship ?

     Friendship is the gift to the man kind. The relation which we get in this world are blood related. But the only relationship which does not related to blood is friendship. Friendship has many forms and shapes. It is like water. If we pour the water into a jug it takes the shape of . if you pour the same water into a bowl it takes the shape of bowl. Someway friendships will take a different shapes and sizes according to our heart. Friendship gives pleasure to human beings. Where there is friendship then there will not be any sorrow. When you see a child laughing you will forget your sorrows for a second, someway when you are with a friend you forget your sorrows.
     Trust it true friendships never makes others down. it helps a lot to make friends to come up from the situation. Friendship never expect anything in return for all its offering. It saves life without looking into situation. Lets get friendship and let's befriends.

jug (N) : a picther
Someway : bagaimana pun
sorrow (V) : to be sad
expect (V) : to look forward to
offering (N) : inscription

How to Be Clever Minded

     The first step to becoming clever is to relax and be yourself. Try to become comfortable with yourself. The next step is to watch some of your clever friends in action. Listen to what they say and when they say it. Also watch people who you think are clever on TV. Stand up comedians are a great source of clever people.
     This last step is perhaps the most important. Get out there and Practice. Talk to everyone you come across and get in the art of making conversation with people. When you become comfortable with the conversation part and being yourself you will notice clever things coming to mind. Do not be afraid to throw it out there. Just let it flow and in very little time you will be naturally  and the center of attention at the party.

clever minded : berpikiran pintar / cerdas
flow : aliran
notice : pemberitahuan
get in : masuk
naturally : tentu saja

Three Ways To Make People Like You

#1 - Be Genuinely Interested In Other People.
I think that the most frequently said word is “I.” People love to talk about themselves, their lives, their hobbies, their families, their passions, etc. When you interact with people, ask questions and allow them to talk, they will love you for it.

#2 - Smile.
A smile is a simple gesture that doesn’t cost money, time, or energy but it can brighten someone’s day; it changes the way you feel and makes you more approachable.
Smiling is attractive and contagious. People around you can’t help but smile when they see a big smile on your face.

#3 - Be A Good Listener
As the sage saying goes, we were given one mouth and two ears for a reason. We need to encourage others to talk and then we need to listen to understand what they are saying.
Listening is much more than being silent. It is an active process. It involves empathy the ability to walk in someone’s shoes and understand them without judging or fixing.
Listening is a skill that is developed with practice. As you master it, people will like you more and more.

genuinely : benar - benar.
encourage : mendorong
involves : melibatkan
contagious : menular
approachable : didekati

How to Be a Good Boyfriend

Be Honest. In a mature relationship, honesty is by far the best policy. It may be difficult, but the truth will allow relationships to breathe.

Don't brush them off. People often find it exasperating when they get the feeling their partner treats them as an inferior in a relationship. Women are no exception. If you really honestly care about that person then you will spend the time that they rightly deserve, or at least discuss the situation.

Make physical contact. Girls have much thinner skin than guys, so even a light touch is appreciated. If your girl is a romantic, upon seeing her for the first time in a couple of days, say, "I missed you..." and weave your arms around her hips then give her a loving hug.

Gifts. Give yourself time to think of what she would like. That way you can find it at a reasonable price and it will still say a lot.

Let your partner be. Just because she is your significant other, doesn't mean she is yours, implying any kind of ownership.

 Be open. Being open to one's mate will show care and concern on her thoughts and feelings. Being open will also allow you to create a more open relationship towards each other as well as creating a very good understanding in what your mate wants, feels, and needs.

mature : dewasa
exasperating : yang menjengkelkan
deserve : pantas
towards : terhadap
treats : memperlakukan

How to Get a Girlfriend

Are you wondering how to get a girlfriend? are you feeling lonely because all your peers have girlfriends and you are the only one who is without a girlfriend? you are not sure what is the problem with you and you have no clue as to what you should do. Are you questioning yourself about your ability to get a girlfriend? do not be disappointed! you just need to have a look at your self a little more closely and intently.

One thing that guys think they are not getting girlfriend is because of their looks. It is not so. The first thing you should do is not to show that you are desperate to get a girlfriend. Be calm and cool in front of a girl. Be patient and cordially speak to a girl you are meeting for the first time. The first few conversations with a girl does not mean that the girl wants to be your girlfriend.

There are no hard and fast rules to find a girlfriend. Be calm and do not be disappointed if a girl rejects your proposal. You cannot force a girl to like you and be your girlfriend. You will get over the rejection after a time.

peers : rekan
desperate : putus asa
cordially : hormat
intently : saksama
rejects : menolak

What is the meaning of success ?

Most people think success is a goal. I do not. I see success as a process. Most people define success only in terms of money. I do not. I think success is a combination of things health, happiness, material prosperity, love of family and friends, wisdom, influence, and fulfillment.
If you are able to give from your abundance then you are successful. If you are able to donate money, spread happiness, inspire health, propagate love, share knowledge, motivate people, etc. then you are successful.

define : mendefinisikan
terms of : segi
wisdom : kebijaksanaan
abundance: kelimpahan
propagate : menyebarkan

The trouble in speaking English

As long as I learn English, in my opinion the most difficult thing is to talk in English. because when we are required to speak English, so indirectly we are also demanded to speak with the correct pronunciation or even more use a difficult grammatical.This looks different when we compare with speaking Indonesian, because in speaking Indonesian, we are not required to use pronunciation or grammatical, what matters is the speaker understand what we are talking about.

My activities in my leisure time

In my leisure time, I have a variety of beneficial activities for my leisure time. for example, when I was holiday I often helped my parents to trade in the market in the morning until noon. After that, if my dad was busy cleaning the house I also helped out. And when everything was finished, I just went to my room and play guitar until sleepy and slept. But sometimes I just play the PlayStation at the WTC until a fair amount of time, or just playing games online.that many of my activities at leisure time.

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The True Integrity

True integrity exists everywhere in nature. Everything functions together as a whole. Also, in nature time is not linear, it is cyclical, a circle of life representing a whole. The seasons change every few months, and they give each other integrity, they give each other change. Right now it is fall, and the  can fall because of the spring, summer and winter. In the winter the leaves are gone, but in the spring new leaves can grow in the place of the fallen, and in the summer the new leaves live happily giving us oxygen until they must die in the fall to start the cycle all over again. They live so they can die, and die so that they can live. The leaves have integrity because they live when it is time to live and die when it is time to die. They know these times because of their relationship to everything else, their relationship to spring, summer, fall, winter and the mechanisms of the earth that produce the seasons, and the mechanisms of the universe that make the earth.
As humans, we do not live when it is time to live because we do not live in relation to everything else, we live according to the dictates of our egos and steadily march towards death time. We do not perceive time as a circle, a whole, held together by a web made by each other and each thing because we want to have our own separate integrity, defended by the creation of linear time. This separate integrity feels assured by the steady ticking of linear time, like a heartbeat its existence is affirmed every second. It ticks until the very end, our heartbeat stops and we are no longer conscious of the ticking. The clock we have created never stops ticking, even if we can no longer hear it. It only mattered to us while we were alive, when it gave us order and what we perceive as integrity. However, the beat of the heart does not conform to the ticking of the clock, it has its own time and the clock does not know it, it is a secret. Only time will tell it.

representing : mewakili             
whole          : seluruh
leaves          : daun
cycle            : siklus
dictates        : menentukan

Motivation is your ” WHY ”

Your WHY is the strong reason for you to desire something. It is not what you desire, but the strong reason you desire it. Let me give an example. If you want to stop working and go into business for yourself here are some possible explanations:
Your desire – to have your own business.
Your WHY – to be independent, to have more time for your family, to have more time to pursue your dreams.
So you see that your WHY often goes beyond the physical objectives themselves. Your why often satisfies a psychological need. That is important. If your reason for doing something is just material, it is unlikely to see you through the difficult times to achieving your dreams.
Your WHY has to look beyond the physical. It has to be from deep within. That way when the going gets tough, your WHY will see you through it because it is a strong, burning reason. It is a reason that will stand strong in the face of opposition.
Now you have a working definition of motivation.

desire  : keinginan
pursue : mengejar
satisfies : memenuhi
achieving : mencapai
deep   : mendalam

What is healing music ??

If you look on the Internet or go into your nearby audio store you're likely to find music labeled Healing Music. The section may include music for relaxation, meditation, stress reduction, pain relief or tapping into one's soul. There may be a variety of instruments or sounds from a forest or the ocean.

So what makes this music healing music?

Music has a way of stirring our innermost feelings and all of our senses, of tapping into parts of ourselves unlike anything else. Music is a universal language that has the ability to speak to us deeply and uniquely.

If you've paid much attention to how you respond to a variety of music, you may have noticed that some music seems to energize you, some music can move you to tears or spark a special memory of a time, place, food, or perhaps a certain person. Some music seems to make you relax, feel less stressed, and feel happier. And some music fills us with deep spiritual attunement.

healing : penyembuhan
stirring : mengaduk
innermost : paling dalam
tears    : air mata
spark   : percikan

Dream And Motivation

Do you have the motivation of the few people that manage to get past just dreaming to actually living their dreams?


While it is true that we all have dreams, it is not true that we are all living our dreams. You could be stuck and for some reason just unable to get past dreaming. What secrets do those that make their dreams come true possess?
Some get rich quick schemers will tell you there is a magic formula to success and they will give it to you at a fee. Obviously they are only after your money. Get rich quick is a good way to get robbed quick.


Others will say that you cannot have unlimited success, wealth and happiness. They have the view that success is only for the few that are destined by fate to have it and not for you. Obviously they look at you through their own mirror of limitations and failures. Trust me, I know plenty of them.

robbed : merampok
wealth  : kekayaan
destined : diperuntukan
failures  : kegagalan
plenty   : cukup